People who want to get love and have already got love, on this day, are not calm and will rack their brains. Love is a good thing. But in this era, love is both fresh-keeping and fragile. All the nights in the world, countless people cry for the pain of love.
In order to win love and protect love, all kinds of wars have never stopped in this world since ancient times. Love is bound by various forces, from the duel in the cold weapon era to the economic bombing in commercial times. To get love, some people rob it bravely, while others possess it by conspiracy.
So, not all love is a good thing. In this world, there is not only bad love, but also dangerous love. "Loving you becomes hurting you", all kinds of love violence and love crimes are constantly creating too many social tragedies and making people see too many ugly human nature.
This shows that love in this era needs to undergo a major filtration to get rid of all kinds of viruses parasitic on love and restore the most simple, beautiful, sincere and loyal value essence of love. Tanabata, as a time node and a cultural symbol, should undertake the filtering function of this emotional quality.
There is only one power that can purify the mind and cultivate emotions, and that is culture. "Tanabata" can be used to call for cultural love. Tanabata in China, along with Spring Festival, Tomb-Sweeping Day, Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Double Ninth Festival, is an important part of China folk culture, which contains too many beautiful emotional qualities. Value elements such as diligence and courage, perseverance, simplicity and kindness, loyalty and dependence are precisely the most needed supplements for love in this era.
Every festival is a commemorative symbol, which records the lifestyle of a specific society and conveys related emotional experiences. It is too shallow and vulgar to simply define Tanabata with the concept of Valentine’s Day. In recent years, the Western Valentine’s Day, in which China people blindly worship imported goods, has not given those who love each other a common emotional value element to strengthen their love foundation, except for promoting material support and luxurious packaging for love.
Tanabata should be different, or it can be different. This festival is wrapped with powerful comprehensive forces of etiquette, symbolism, emotion and ethics. Today, it should not be easily taken off, but should be strengthened. "All the way to the Altair, Jiaojiao River Han female … Ying Ying Yi Shui, the pulse is speechless." The story of the meeting between the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl in the beautiful sky and the Milky Way Bridge is undoubtedly a beautiful myth that people need most in this era when they are injured by vanity. At such a time node, to appreciate such traditional values to make up for the lack of inner traditional culture and sincere feelings, people and talents will know how to cherish them more, and then they will give up those materialized realistic factors and truly respect their own hearts.
In this era when people’s emotional values are extremely disintegrated, and in this era when countless people are carrying the banner of love but doing a lot of dirty transactions, we might as well take "Qixi" as a filter of love culture to carry out a cultural construction and a people’s heart construction. Since love is the most precious emotion in this world, don’t let such emotional quality easily corrupt. Only culture can make people with common values, feelings and human ethics find the same kind and then stick together tightly.